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Will she ever be ready for a kiss?

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I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a month now. Well, technically not dating as I can't date until I'm 16, but we're a couple. Anyways, I have many times before asked her if she wants to meet me by the staircase for our first kiss. She's hesitant. I'm not sure if she wants to, and it's okay if she's not ready, but I'm wondering:

1) Will she be ready anytime soon?
2) Why is she hesitant? We love each other so much, you'd think she'd want to.
3) Is it possible to get her to want to kiss me?

Thanks in advance.
asked Sep 11, 2015 in Relationships by Caiden
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There are many reasons as to why your girlfriend may be hesitant to kiss you. If she has never kissed anyone else before, she may be nervous, which is perfectly normal. Most people who have never kissed anyone may worry that they will do something wrong or that their partner may not enjoy the kiss. You may want to try easing her fears; let her know you understand her fears and will still love her regardless.



The best way to get her to kiss you is to go in for it. Try not to talk about beforehand. Instead, look into her eyes, and slowly move your mouth towards hers. Start off gently and slowly; going to rough and too fast will probably make her back away. Also, make sure your breath smells good; nothing will send her running for their hills more than stinky breath! Good luck!


1. http://www.instructables.com/id/How-to-Kiss/


answered Sep 11, 2015 by erod429 (53,480 points)
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Many girls are afraid of moving too fast since they believe it sends the wrong message. That can be one of the reasons that she is holding back. It would probably be best if you did not try to plan it and allowed things to happen naturally. The idea of having a set kissing time can be a bit intimidating, so it may be best to avoid asking her about meeting by the staircase.


There really is no definite time when she may be ready for a kiss, so I cannot really tell you this. What I can say is that you should be patient if you really love her. The more relaxed she feels around you, the more likely she will be comfortable enough to try kissing. Here are a few resources that will help you prepare for the big day when it approaches.








answered Sep 13, 2015 by Johnresa (33,810 points)
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It sounds like your girlfriend is nervous to take the next step in your relationship. It is very likely that she will be ready soon, but it is important to pay attention so that you realize when the big moment is near. For instance, she may begin touching you frequently or opening her body position up to you (e.g., looking at you, with her hands at her sides instead of in front of her body) [1].


There are other ways that she may show you she is ready, too. She might lengthen her hugs or look for time to spend alone with you [2]. Since you know she seems unsure, open the lines of communication. If she feels she can talk to you about anything, her trust in your relationship will deepen and everything else will progress naturally.




[1] http://theartofcharm.com/dating-tips/body-language-signs-shes-ready-kiss/


[2] http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/dating/how-to-tell-if-she-wants-a-kiss/#.Vff0FxHBzRY

answered Sep 15, 2015 by Unckelli (50,310 points)

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