My New Year's resolution is to make sure that I am less negative. I want to start to be more mindful, and live for those that are around me now instead of for people that were in my past. There have been a lot of negative people in my past, and through therapy and just being with my family I am learning about how to be more happy with what I have instead of what happened to me.
Another thing I want to do this year is work hard. I don't want to be behind on my bills any longer and want to keep up with what I need to do. Instead of letting things distract me, I am going to set monetary goals and meet them. There are a lot of great jobs I have access to and if I can keep up with what needs to be done that will make my life a lot easier. Since I have a family to care for, it's more important now than ever to keep myself from being broke or unable to help with finances.
Finally, I'd like to be more active. I am someone that is a hermit a lot of the time due to anxiety. There are a lot of things that make me anxious, and I don't like to leave my house a lot. To fix this, I want to start figuring out what I can do to take my family out or to just go out myself every week. Agoraphobia is something a doctor once told me I had, which is a fear of being in a situation in which you cannot escape.
1 - http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/topic/mindfulness/definition
2 - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Agoraphobia